Eric van Dusseldorp x Phen Kosilar - 5th of March 2009 - Preparations for the wedding

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In love (June 2008 till...)

We made trips to her family in Nong Khai and to Chang Mai, Laos and Penang (Malaysia). 

 

Morlam festival
In October 2008 we organized a Morlam festival (live Thai folk and pop music) for Pens family, her friends and the whole neighborhood.

 

Preparations for the wedding (3-4 March 2009)

A Thai marriage is not possible without slaughtering a cow. 

 

Our wedding (5 March 2009)

An unforgettable day: marrying for Buddha.

 

Our honeymoon (7-12 March 2009)
Of course in Bali, where else?

 

• Our house in Phen
A specious house in the Isan, between Nong Khai and Udon Thani. 

 
 

 

Lara, the little daughter of my brother, has -in stead of the Thai girls- white hair, a white skin and blue eyes. In the little Isan village the people had never seen such a girl. But no problem. In one minute she was big friend with the childs of the village.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Of course we invited our neighbours for our wedding party.

 

 

The day before: members of Phen's family cleaned the rented cups.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Late in the evening: a slaughtered cow arrived. Just a half our ago the poor animal was still living, they told me. Indeed, fresher is not possible.

 

The trophy is, of course, the head of the cow.

 

 

Nod bad.

 

Have a nice meal.

 

Many people of my country -The Netherlands- don't like this kind of photographs. But at the other side, they like typical Dutch food as 'kroketten' and 'frikandellen'. And is that delicious food made from the best meat? I don't think so. Maybe partly or fully from the cow's head.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The whole family cuts the cow in small pieces.

 

 

 

 

It's 3 o'clock in the night. Everything is prepared for the next day, which starts on 7 o'clock (official ceremony).

 

 

 

 

Three ladyboys, specialized in preparing brides and bridegirls, arrived at 4 o'clock in the night with wedding clothes for Phen and Eric. And they prepared Phen for the wedding ceremony.

 

 

 

 

One ladyboy prepared Phen's daughter Eye. She was one of the bride girls.

 

Eye after preparing. She looked like a Thai princess of the 19th century.

 

 

 

 

A Thai marriage is not possible without slaughtering a cow. In the midnight before the wedding nearly the whole family of Phen was preparing meals with the meat of the cow.

 

Little Eye, daughter of Phen, gets a present from my brother Alex:

Typical Dutch wooden shoes (film)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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